More than a Role

Fatherhood is a calling

Fatherhood by Design is a powerful guide for dads who are ready to rise, not just as parents, but as intentional leaders. Former professional hockey player and leadership coach Erik Westrum shares personal stories, practical tools, and faith-driven insights to help you lead your home with clarity, consistency, and conviction.


This isn’t a book about perfection. It’s a challenge to trade passive parenting for purposeful presence- and to build a legacy your children will carry for life.

What You'll Learn

Be present and make every moment count

Balance work, life, and fatherhood without guilt

Lead by example with faith, discipline, and resilience

Build lasting family traditions

Create a game plan to shape your legacy

How This Book Helps Lead with Intention

Whether you're a new or seasoned Dad, This book helps you:

About the Author

Erik Westrum - Athlete, Father, Leader

Erik Westrum is a former professional hockey player, author, motivational speaker, leadership coach, and entrepreneur at heart. He has had a passion to help others since he was a young child and this has not changed as he continues to fulfill his purpose in life—to be a Servant Leader.

After playing professional hockey for 12 years, Erik went back to the Carlson School of Management to get his MBA to gain more knowledge and expertise to help leaders and companies grow exponentially. After consulting on numerous projects and coaching hundreds of people over the past 22 years, Erik established the principles and processes through “Becoming Elite” and what it takes to transform your life using four proven pillars of performance. 

Erik resides in Prior Lake, Minnesota, with his beautiful wife, Kelly, and their four amazing children, Luke, Ethan, Isabella, and Evelina. He continues to guide people, businesses, athletes, and anyone looking to improve their life through his proven process. Erik is excited to walk alongside you on your journey to becoming a better you.

Start Your Fatherhood Journey Today

Be Present

Lead With Purpose

Inspire Your Children

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